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Gender[queer], Japan[ese], Queer[ness], YouTube[r]

QAC 15 – Conformity: Being Genderqueer Abroad

August 29, 2013 / No Comments

sorry for the long video and please do note that everything i said in the video is purely my opinion based on my experiences etc. i don’t claim to be an expert on anything…! and i totally forgot to mention how obviously i have to keep my gender under wraps during all of this being abroad business. i have to check “female” under “gender” on forms, if anyone asks i’m female, if anyone acts on the assumption that i’m female, i can’t disagree with them, etc etc. le sigh. sorry for being M.I.A. lately…! will try to do better. ;(

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Vesper H.

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QAC 14 – Anatomy and Gender Presentation

August 18, 2013 / No Comments

in this video i talk about how my anatomy (biology) affects my gender presentation/the clothing i wear. as a short, FAAB (female assigned at birth) neutrois person who dresses androgynously, shopping for clothes has always been a problem….

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Vesper H.

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QAC 13 – Staying In The Closet

August 11, 2013 / No Comments

in this video i talk about how i’ve come to the conclusion that i won’t ever be coming out to my mom. at least, not intentionally.

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QAC 11.5 – Life Update: Life Gives You Shit, Make S’mores

July 21, 2013 / No Comments

my last update before moving back to America. why am i moving back to America….? life shit on me, that’s why. no, but seriously. i’m moving back “home” temporarily and will be on hiatus for a couple of weeks. bbs.

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Vesper H.

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QAC 11 – Growing Up Ace (Asexual)

July 21, 2013 / No Comments

as a followup to QAC 02 – The Road to Asexuality, this video “briefly” covers my childhood and what brought me to questioning whether or not i was asexual in the first place. it should probably be noted that i am what some aces call a “non-libidoist” asexual. that is, in addition to being asexual (ie. not experiencing sexual attraction), i also happen to not experience a libido/sex drive. not having a libido/sex drive should NOT be confused with asexuality , which is simply a lack of sexual attraction. some asexuals do experience an active sex drive/libido, while others do not. either way, my lack of libido/sex drive is just something that happened alongside my asexuality; it isn’t what makes me asexual……

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Vesper H.

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QAC 10 – Gender Dysphoria & Body Mods

July 6, 2013 / No Comments

i think that dealing with dysphoria is all about owning the situation– taking control of the things that you do have at least some control over and doing what makes you happy. for me at the moment, that involves getting a septum piercing. 😛 i happen to like certain body mods, but body mods aren’t for everyone.

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Vesper H.

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QAC 19.5 – Life Update: Thank you! + Names + Japan
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AskAPan Week 07 – Family responses to the LGBTQ community

July 5, 2013 / No Comments

nighstar blurbs about their family’s feelings towards the LGBTQ community and how they deal with negativity. their advice: deal with each person and each situation on a one by one basis because every person and every situation is different.

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Vesper H.

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AskAPan Week 06 – “Genderblind”ness (+DOMA comments)

June 28, 2013 / No Comments

my (humble) opinion on many pansexual’s and panromantic’s use of the term “genderblind” and why such a term is highly problematic, plus brief comments re: DOMA.

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Vesper H.

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QAC 28 – On “Blackness”, Queer Identity & Intersectionality (a rant)
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QAC 03 – Romantic Orientations & Other Types of Attraction
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QAC 08 – Non-Binary Social Dysphoria (Body, Hair, etc)

June 14, 2013 / No Comments

i.e. why society makes me want to bind my chest, chop off my ass and cut off my hair.

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Vesper H.

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QAC 07 – Transmasculine & Transfeminine (my opinion)

June 4, 2013 / No Comments

this was a video request by someone requesting the definitions of transmaculine and transfeminine, but i kind of ran with it and included my opinion…. also i used finger quotes too often for some reason…. sorry. please feel free to correct me if i am wrong or to share your opinions/understanding of these words. for reference: http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Transmasculine a video made by request. i blurb about my understanding of these identities and my opinion on the words themselves. i’d really like to hear others’ experiences/feelings/etc because i’m well aware of the fact that there is lots that i don’t know or may have misunderstood. care to share your thoughts?

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Vesper H.

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