[A]sexuality,  Q&A,  Queer[ness]

Q&A: “What do you call my sexuality in this scenario?”

anonymous said:

Hey hello hi, so I just recently came to the fact that im attracted physically to men and not sexually, but im attracted to woman physically and sexually. Ive always identified myself as a Lesbian and im confused now cus i found out i feel attracted to men. I DONT wanna do any sexually things with them, NEVER, but i find them attractive? like hardcore. What do you call my sexuality in this scenario? YO and thanks

it’s up to you what you call yourself, anon. you could choose to continue to identify as a lesbian if you want to. being a lesbian doesn’t necessarily mean that you aren’t attracted to men in any way whatsoever, imho. then again, you could also identify as something else if you want to. some people are attracted to different genders in different ways. a woman who is sexually and romantically attracted to women but only romantically attracted to men might (or might not) identify as a biromantic lesbian, for example.

it’s up to you whether you incorporate your attraction to men into your identity and if so, how you do it. sorry i can’t help more.

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