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  • [Random] Thoughts,  Gender[queer],  Queer[ness]

    The Neutrois “Standard”

    February 11, 2014 / No Comments

    so, there’s a thread on AVEN that opens like this… A new (to me) concept was recently thrown in my path. It’s the idea that there are sex orientations as well as gender orientations; ie that sex is not strictly what you physically look like, but what you want to look like (sexual characteristics-wise). For example, neutrois would count as a sex orientation, not a gender one; neutrois, as I understand it, is a desire to present as neutrally as possible, with the characteristics of neither binary sex. However, agender and genderless are gender orientations, because they specifically refer to the construct of gender, not physical aspects. This made a lot of sense to me, intuitively. It allows us to think of a single person as both neutrois and agender, to follow the above examples. Or neutrois and demi-guy, or androgynous man, or female agender, or any combination. I’m wondering how many…

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    …and here we are. again. (cw: homophobia, nsfw)

    July 17, 2018

    …i just did something bad.

    September 9, 2017

    Snapchat rant #457

    July 15, 2016
  • [A]sexuality,  Gender[queer],  Japan[ese],  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 22 – LGBTQ J-Magazines: Garçon Girls + Novia Novia

    February 10, 2014 / No Comments

    so i got my hands on a couple of really interesting Japanese magazines and decided to make a video about them in the middle of a snowstorm when i was dead tired. what the hell was i thinking? sorry for the crappiness of this video! それともビデオが日本語じゃなくて英語で録画して、ごめんね!日本語が難しすぎからだ。(´Д`)

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    QAC 06 – Coming Out as a Panromantic Asexual

    June 1, 2013

    “You are freaking perfect how you are.”

    June 19, 2018

    QAC 55 – Older Asexuals: Coming Out Later In Life | Questioning | Trauma

    October 23, 2016
  • Gender[queer],  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 21 – Gender Identity & Feminism

    January 3, 2014 / No Comments

    i’ve never identified as a feminist and yet when it came to questioning my gender identity i somehow felt guilty for wanting to identify as anything other than my assigned gender, ie female. was i betraying myself? someone else? women everywhere?? i guess my relationship with feminism was and will always be more complicated than i’d thought. surely it’s not just me?

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    QAC 30 – Gender Expression / Presentation Blurb

    October 28, 2014

    Tokyo Rainbow Pride 2015 (4/26/15)

    May 10, 2015

    QAC 24 – Labels: Why They’re Important + Why I Use Them

    March 17, 2014
  • [Random] Thoughts

    SIGH.

    January 1, 2014 / No Comments

    …it’s really depressing thinking about all the money i’m going to have to save up and then spend just to do away with something that i don’t need nor want. …and then it’s depressing thinking about all the people out there who’d love to have this thing that i don’t need/want. SIGH.

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    gender feels; racial trauma.

    December 6, 2017

    adventures in Japanese TV: “haafu”

    September 1, 2016

    QAC 10 – Gender Dysphoria & Body Mods

    July 6, 2013
  • [Random] Thoughts,  YouTube[r]

    QAC 20 – Aspirations, Goals & More For 2014

    December 29, 2013 / No Comments

    goodbye 2013 and good riddance! in this video i talk about my goals for 2014, including coping with depression/dysphoria through cycling, getting connected with Japan’s LGBTQIA community and saving money for a hysterectomy. i also talk about my (lack of) transitioning and my new name! a huge THANK YOU! to all of my followers and subscribers! there’s undoubtedly lots more videos to come in 2014. 🙂

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    December 20, 2015

    Antiblackness and Binarism: Grindr in Japan

    January 6, 2018

    random is random

    August 9, 2015
  • Gender[queer],  Japan[ese],  Queer[ness]

    neutroisって日本語でなんと言いますか。

    December 26, 2013 / No Comments

    while randomly watching videos on YouTube i came across the vlog of a Japanese FtX (their words, not mine) person. i was so happy that i immediately started typing a comment introducing myself, but when it came to saying that i’m neutrois i couldn’t figure out how to say it. see, Japanese kind of sucks…. there is no word to distinguish between SEX and GENDER– the both equate to 性 (sei). i dare say that the entire concept of gender vs sex is lacking in Japan, but that’s a topic for another time. i thought that maybe neutrois could be translated as 無性者 (museisha; literally translates to “person without sex/gender”) but apparently that’s used to mean asexual! wtffffff….. so then i thought that maybe i could say 中立性者 (chuuritsuseisha), which literally translates to “neutral person” but apparently 中立性 (chuuritsusei) is used in regards to having a neutral stance on any given thing and so wouldn’t really be used specifically for gender despite 性 (sei)…

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    July 9, 2018

    gender feels; racial trauma.

    December 6, 2017

    Happy Non-binary Day!

    July 14, 2016
  • [Random] Thoughts,  Japan[ese],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 19.5 – Life Update: Thank you! + Names + Japan

    November 15, 2013 / No Comments

    just a quick video before i go M.I.A. for a little while. thank you again for watching. 🙂

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    QAC 10 – Gender Dysphoria & Body Mods

    July 6, 2013

    Re: …i just did something bad.

    September 10, 2017
    "Building" by LEANDRO ERLICH (2017) taken at Mori Art Museum 2018

    h/History.

    February 11, 2019
  • Gender[queer],  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 17 – Choosing a Gender Neutral Name

    September 19, 2013 / No Comments

    choosing a new name is really hard for anyone, but it seems especially hard choosing a gender neutral name. for one, is any name ever truly gender neutral…? there’s so much that goes into gendering a name that i think it’s impossible to really say. either way, because i’m so picky i find myself with very few options to choose from…

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    QAC 46 – “Race / Gender Doesn’t Exist!” | The Argument of Social Constructs

    February 11, 2016

    genderfuck

    February 7, 2013

    #TRP2015 準備完了

    April 25, 2015
  • Gender[queer],  Japan[ese],  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 15 – Conformity: Being Genderqueer Abroad

    August 29, 2013 / No Comments

    sorry for the long video and please do note that everything i said in the video is purely my opinion based on my experiences etc. i don’t claim to be an expert on anything…! and i totally forgot to mention how obviously i have to keep my gender under wraps during all of this being abroad business. i have to check “female” under “gender” on forms, if anyone asks i’m female, if anyone acts on the assumption that i’m female, i can’t disagree with them, etc etc. le sigh. sorry for being M.I.A. lately…! will try to do better. ;(

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    QAC 65 – 1 Month on Low Dose HRT | Non-Binary | Mental Health || The T Files #005

    February 12, 2018

    Tokyo Rainbow Pride 2017: ACES & ENBIES

    May 15, 2017

    fuck your Oppression Olympics

    September 15, 2016
  • Gender[queer],  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 14 – Anatomy and Gender Presentation

    August 18, 2013 / No Comments

    in this video i talk about how my anatomy (biology) affects my gender presentation/the clothing i wear. as a short, FAAB (female assigned at birth) neutrois person who dresses androgynously, shopping for clothes has always been a problem….

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    June 28, 2013

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    October 12, 2013

    QAC 48 – Non-Binary Gender Norms & (A)sexuality: Yeah, No.

    March 27, 2016
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Queer As Cat is the blog and YouTube channel of Vesper, an American expat currently living in Japan.
reoccurring topics include: #asexuality, #nonbinary, #queerness #blackness & #mentalhealth

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