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[A]sexuality, Queer[ness], YouTube[r]

QAC 16 – Asexuality and the LGBTQ Community

September 9, 2013 / No Comments

======= NAVIGATION BELOW ======= @00:00 – Disclaimer @01:09 – Is Asexuality part of the LGBTQ community? @01:57 – Arguments against inclusion of asexuality @03:58 – My opinion @05:07 – The Center, Vegas’ LGBTQ center @06:10 – Las Vegas PRIDE @06:53 – Asexual alienation in LGBTQ spaces @09:35 – The lack of B, T and other groups in LGBTQ spaces @11:59 – Asexual pride at PRIDE events…? @13:11 – “A” bashing in the film Gayby @14:01 – Does the rainbow flag really represent the entire LGBTQ? ================================ long video is LONG, i know. sorry! i have a lot to say on this subject. i understand that not everyone will agree with me on this topic; i certainly don’t expect eveyone to! i’m very interested in hearing others’ opinions on this, whether in regards to asexuality and the LGBTQ community or any other identity and the LGBTQ community. thanks for watching. 🙂

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QAC 15 – Conformity: Being Genderqueer Abroad

August 29, 2013 / No Comments

sorry for the long video and please do note that everything i said in the video is purely my opinion based on my experiences etc. i don’t claim to be an expert on anything…! and i totally forgot to mention how obviously i have to keep my gender under wraps during all of this being abroad business. i have to check “female” under “gender” on forms, if anyone asks i’m female, if anyone acts on the assumption that i’m female, i can’t disagree with them, etc etc. le sigh. sorry for being M.I.A. lately…! will try to do better. ;(

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QAC 14 – Anatomy and Gender Presentation

August 18, 2013 / No Comments

in this video i talk about how my anatomy (biology) affects my gender presentation/the clothing i wear. as a short, FAAB (female assigned at birth) neutrois person who dresses androgynously, shopping for clothes has always been a problem….

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QAC 13 – Staying In The Closet

August 11, 2013 / No Comments

in this video i talk about how i’ve come to the conclusion that i won’t ever be coming out to my mom. at least, not intentionally.

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QAC 10 – Gender Dysphoria & Body Mods

July 6, 2013 / No Comments

i think that dealing with dysphoria is all about owning the situation– taking control of the things that you do have at least some control over and doing what makes you happy. for me at the moment, that involves getting a septum piercing. 😛 i happen to like certain body mods, but body mods aren’t for everyone.

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AskAPan Week 07 – Family responses to the LGBTQ community

July 5, 2013 / No Comments

nighstar blurbs about their family’s feelings towards the LGBTQ community and how they deal with negativity. their advice: deal with each person and each situation on a one by one basis because every person and every situation is different.

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QAC 09 – The Binding Dilemma

June 24, 2013 / No Comments

to bind or not to bind….? and if so, which binder should i buy? in this video i think aloud about my binding dilemma.

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QAC 08 – Non-Binary Social Dysphoria (Body, Hair, etc)

June 14, 2013 / No Comments

i.e. why society makes me want to bind my chest, chop off my ass and cut off my hair.

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QAC 05 – Gender Blurb: Neutrois?

May 29, 2013 / No Comments

am i neutrois? hmmm…. in this video i blurb horribly about my own gender. i am neither male, nor am i female. i am not masculine, nor am i feminine. i am not a combination of the two, nor am i somewhere in between the two. i am not gender apathetic, nor am i genderless. i am outside of the gender binary.29 i am what i’ve always been. i am neutral. me blurbing about why i kinda sorta identify as neutrois but how people’s misinformed/uninformed assumptions about what neutrois is screws with my identity.

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QAC 01 – Introduction

May 11, 2013 / 1 Comment

hello all and welcome to my new channel, Queer As Cat. 🙂 this channel will contain video blogs regarding things that are very personal to me, including asexuality, panromanticism, gender and more. sorry for the background noise in the video…. ….starting a vlog to go alongside this Tumblr account. this Tumblr account will continue to focus on reblogging and sharing stuff related to asexuality, panromanticism/pansexuality, biromanticism/bisexuality, gender etc in general. the Youtube channel will focus on my own personal blurbing. ….so yeah, vlogging. interesting times.

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