[A]sexuality,  [Random] Thoughts


…so now i’m being accused of “attacking the [alterous] community as a whole” because i pointed out the overlapping usage of two concepts/terms and expressed concern over how things are being worded/conceived by some people while being “non aro” and “non alterous”. great.

i love how the responsibility is being put on me to go to their askboxes and explain my feelings / view and that i’m being faulted for expressing my feelings on my own blog without coming to them personally instead. as if i have the time or responsibility to go to the askboxes of blogs every time i feel some kinda way about something. and then when one of them does reach out to me privately, there’s more ‘you’re not aro so stop talking.’

all of that aside, i do not understand how they are unable to see how off-putting they’re being. if i was at all leaning towards using alterous for myself personally, i am much less inclined to do so now with these two standing at the gates of the alterous community.

YouTuber and Blogger, Vesper is an American expat currently living in Japan.

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