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  • [Random] Thoughts,  Gender[queer],  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 05 – Gender Blurb: Neutrois?

    May 29, 2013 / No Comments

    am i neutrois? hmmm…. in this video i blurb horribly about my own gender. i am neither male, nor am i female. i am not masculine, nor am i feminine. i am not a combination of the two, nor am i somewhere in between the two. i am not gender apathetic, nor am i genderless. i am outside of the gender binary.29 i am what i’ve always been. i am neutral. me blurbing about why i kinda sorta identify as neutrois but how people’s misinformed/uninformed assumptions about what neutrois is screws with my identity.

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    April 4, 2014
  • [A]sexuality,  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 03 – Romantic Orientations & Other Types of Attraction

    May 24, 2013 / No Comments

    in this video i try to explain how there are several types of attraction, including romantic, sensual, aesthetic and sexual attraction. i also go on to explain that there are also romantic orientations in addition to sexual orientations and how these two orientations do not always match each other. i am certainly no expert on this topic, but i feel that this topic is not discussed enough, so i made this video with the hope of furthering awareness and discussion about the matter. i apologize if i have confused for offended anyone. re: the “Orientations” image used in this video, see here. feedback and comments are welcome. hope i explained things clearly/correctly enough. ;(

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    QAC 72 – Outted To Religious Mom: 4 Years Later | HRT | Non-Binary Relationship || #ItGetsBetter?

    September 18, 2018

    …one of many examples of why navigating セクマイ / LGBTQIA spaces in Japan can be painful at times.

    October 7, 2016
  • [A]sexuality,  [Random] Thoughts,  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 04 – Why I Identify as Panromantic & Biromantic

    May 24, 2013 / No Comments

    in this terribly long video, i blurb on and on about how i came to identify as a panromantic AND biromantic asexual. that’s right, i said pan and bi. many people quote bisexuality as meaning “attraction to males and females,” but that’s just binarist and ignorant, imho. there are bisexual who do define their own attraction as such, but regarding bisexuality and biromanticism in general, there is absolutely nothing that suggests the existence of only two genders or that “bi” is at all limited to attraction only towards males and females. example definitions of bi that many people fail to consider: – attraction to the SAME and to OTHER genderS than oneself. – attraction to AGENDER and to FEMALES. – attraction to GENDERQUEER and to GENDERFLUID. – attraction to MALES and to NEUTROIS. – etc etc bisexuals and biromantics are the ones who get to define their respective orientations, not…

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    October 13, 2013

    Tokyo Rainbow Pride 2016: Asexual & Trans / Non-binary Awesomeness!

    May 14, 2016

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    June 1, 2018
  • [A]sexuality,  Queer[ness],  YouTube[r]

    QAC 02 – The Road to Asexuality

    May 17, 2013 / No Comments

    in this video i talk about how i personally came to identify as an asexual. i apologize for the length, but there was a lot to fit in! a ton of things went unsaid in this video, including the feelings, experiences and everything else that went into me looking into asexuality in the first place, but hopefully i’ve included enough of my story here for you to get the gist of why it took me so long to identify as asexual. “blehblehblehbleh”, ie. how i came to identify as asexual.

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    September 15, 2016

    QAC 39 – Biromantic + Panromantic Pride! | Being Both Bi & Pan

    September 23, 2015

    QAC 24 – Labels: Why They’re Important + Why I Use Them

    March 17, 2014
  • [Random] Thoughts,  Art[sy Fartsy],  Gender[queer],  Queer[ness]

    ….so i did a doodle.

    March 19, 2013 / No Comments

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    November 28, 2017

    QAC 75 – Questioning In Silence?: Identity | Self-Discovery | Stigma || Random Thoughts

    February 27, 2019

    story time: when “African” is more important than “American”

    August 14, 2016
  • [A]sexuality,  [Random] Thoughts,  Gender[queer],  Queer[ness]

    my collection…

    March 7, 2013 / No Comments

    …of pride bracelets. 🙂 neither one on its own accurately describes me, so i wear them all. btw, all of them were made by the talented Shauna Taylor of Dancing Leaf Studios. 🙂

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    October 18, 2015

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    February 10, 2014

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    May 7, 2014
  • [A]sexuality,  [Random] Thoughts,  Art[sy Fartsy]

    “i am asexual”

    February 12, 2013 / No Comments

    05/23/2018 edit: *continues to scratch head* @2013 Vesper

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    March 20, 2017

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    September 15, 2016

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    October 16, 2016
  • [Random] Thoughts,  Art[sy Fartsy],  Gender[queer],  Queer[ness]

    genderfuck

    February 7, 2013 / No Comments

    want to know more? see: Wikipedia: Genderfuck “Genderfuck and Ignorance” by Zoe Aleshire

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    October 12, 2017

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    July 17, 2018

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  • [Random] Thoughts,  Art[sy Fartsy]

    “i am bisexual”

    February 2, 2013 / No Comments

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VESPER H.

YouTuber & Blogger

Queer As Cat is the blog and YouTube channel of Vesper, an American expat currently living in Japan.
reoccurring topics include: #asexuality, #nonbinary, #queerness #blackness & #mentalhealth

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