Q&A: “I think I’m a cis girl but I’ve discovered that I don’t mind if someone would call me by other pronouns…”
anonymous said:
Hey đ I think I’m a cis girl but I’ve discovered that I don’t mind if someone would call me by other pronouns than she/her or call me a dude or something. On some days I feel more masculine and I feel more feminine. Is that “normal”?
iâm a strong believer in there being no such thing as ânormalâ and that what most people consider to be ânormalâ is really just âcommonâ, but anywayâŠ
is that common among cis girls? iâm afraid that i have no idea. based on what iâve heard, i wouldnât say that itâs uncommon. then again, iâd also like to point out that whether itâs common or not says nothing about your gender anyway. everyone, regardless of whether theyâre cis, trans and / or non-binary, has their own unique relationship with and feelings about the language used to refer to them and how they feel about their own gender. try not to compare your feelings to whatâs common within society. instead, just think about what your feelings mean to you regardless of what it might mean to anyone else.