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? QAC 76.5 – 11 Years In The Making: #TheBigChop || Non-binary | QPOC | Haircut

June 1, 2019 / No Comments

two months after moving back to America from Japan, i've finally done what i've been dreaming about doing for years...! that is, cutting off my butt-length locs of 11 years-- i.e., the #BigChop...

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Vesper H.

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QAC 75.5.5 – From Japan to America, Expat to Repat || Queer | LDR | Travel

May 15, 2019 / 1 Comment

after having lived abroad in Japan and Australia for 11 years, i've finally moved back to America, turning a long distance relationship into a.... not... long distance relationship...

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“love languages”?? communication tool.

May 1, 2019 / 1 Comment

i don't remember when i first heard about Gary Chapman's The 5 Love Languages (5LL) or in what context; my shotty memory can barely even remember what my MBTI type is...

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