Q&A: “What is the best way to help myself figure out [whether I’m bi or pan]?”
So I can’t tell if I am closer to pan or bi because I live in an area where most people are male or female. What is the best way to help myself figure that out?
listen to your heart and go with whichever word you feel describes you. you don’t have to have experience with a person of every gender to identify as one or the other. just go with what feels right based on how you feel now and in the future, if it turns out that another word describes you better, than you can switch to using that word if you so choose.
just checking, but do you know that both may describe you? because there is overlap between the two. [+bonus reading]